I am seperated from my husband for reasons which I hope are obvious at this point. Any takers? Yes, you in the middle row, dark hair, what is your guess? No it has nothing to do with him drinking, he's sober, next please, you in the front, blond, no no no not at all. he never beat me, he's a great guy but thanks for your concern, good guess though....come on any one else...yes you in the back, cute red head......, actually...yes, I am a lesbian and no longer wanted to sleep with a man regardless how nice or how many years I already did that deal Very good! How many were just gonna say that? I though so, it was getting easy! Anyway, I have two kids, I live with my 14 yr old daughter who is an absolute brat(God love her!) and I cannot imagine life without that brat!! My son is away in the army. Yes, the army I am not that old I know but sometimes it sure can feel it. Not always, only when I go to ask him for his laundry from his messy room and then I remember the room is spotless and there are no dirty clothes cuz he is doing his own laundry in Florida away at AIT. Just a mom surviving withthe realization she likes women and...by the way... has all along. Have yet to imagine dating since I left the ol ball and chain, but hey...isnt this is the reason I left? Didnt I want to see who was out there constantly calling my name, where are you? Who are you? I know I hear you! Oh and also to see what the lifestyle had to offer me since I left a white picket fence for it and all.