I am a very honest and sincere person. I don't believe in sugar-coating anything but I do have tact about my honesty. I do not wish to be involved with anyone who does not have self-control. In this day and age there are far too many diseases out there for me to consider a sexually relationship with anyone unless he is my husband. If you don't agree, don't write.....God is first in my life no matter what attraction I may feel to a man. I am disease and drug free and I don't indulge in silly sex games. Noone is worth dying for so this Sister just ain't having it. I will accept friendship though. If you want to be friends, that's cool but I do not sleep with friends. Truly getting to know someone takes time and energy. I don't rush into anything. I would prefer someone who has never been married and doesn't have more that two children. I only have one child myself.