Please do not take my photos as desperation. I am very comfortable with my sexuality and I like to show that.

I am a very non-prejudice, strong mind, fairly intelligent, independent, even keeled, unmaterialistic, spiritual (natural spirit, karma type spirituality), deep, positive nature, unneedy and responsible. Sexy and fun loving in the right enviroment. I am taking things slowly and easily. I am a Gemini and born in the year of the Dragon on the Chinese Calender.

Man of my dreams is non-prejudice, intellectual, positive by nature, has a strong mind but not a control freak,, has a life but likes quality time too, thoughtful and romantic . Must love nature and animals. Emotionally secure enough to not feel neglected if I am not touchy feely or needy because I am playful and touchy but not all the time. Mature but playful, self motivating, only drinks at occasions, doesn't do any drugs. Physically, please be clean but not obsessive, warm eyes, deep voice would be nice, not a requirement, physically able to make love would also be nice as I still enjoy it,


Update, I am now officially an empty nester. I am going to move into a smaller place and get ready to do a little bit of traveling. I have some people and places I want to see.

A couple of my poems:

Loss a lesson learned


Every person endures loss
small or large it is all a toss
from simple hopes and dreams
to those that make the soul scream

The process starts with shock and sadness
followed by extreme blame and madness
then numbness or the lack of life
no end seen for the strife

This is what happens for each loss
no matter how strong noone is the boss
Some stay stuck in the beginning fazes
constantly lost in the endless mazes

The way we know we found our way
is we can smile and remember happy days
without the anger or the blame
but with a thankfulness for the same

Whether it was a dream or the love of your life
the experience of it/them is the point of life
to say to ourselves the time spent was a gift
no matter how bad, it gave your life a lift

Once this lesson is learned
a more peaceful, serene life is earned
Your new beginnings from this day
will be a more positive and happy way

bc12/31/07


Woe is me.....victim philosophy


Victim philosophy is living life
with a woe is me to the strife
constantly allowing the crimes
Never learning the lesson or rhymes

"Why do these men seem to misuse me?"
"Never any respect or love do I see"
"Taking advantage of my kindness"
"Always responding with indifference"

Laying down to let them kick you
crying and blaming them for what they do
Never looking within for the reason
You just fell in love it was the season

Self respect is not a given
it comes from a way of livin'
Requiring respect from all
will allow good love to call

So when you feel slighted
do not act unsighted
call the disrespect when seen
standing tall, do not lean!

Others eyes see you as you do
unworthy if you let the crimes ensue
For the worthiness to bloom
you may have to clear the room

Showing your worth and self respect
is sometimes an angry, ugly event
You must show them that
You are not a door mat

What is then inside of you
that let these people do
these crimes against you?
The lesson is here for you

Your self value and respect
is what you must always get
for we only receive what we demand
noone can give a helping hand

Say goodbye to the victim philosophy
where your self worth like a trophy
for with this lesson you have learned
control of your life you have earned



bc01/04/07

I saved all the original works from my testimonials. Not that I did not appreciate the others but I do not want to bog down the site with all the unoriginal testimonials. Hopefully I will still get them in my mail so I can add them here :)

Testimonials:
Wolfeyes58 : 04/22/08
To the lady, with a dragons appeal
One that will bite, in which you feel.
She is my friend, don't cross her path,
You'll wind up feeling, both our wrath.
I love her dearly, for the way she is
If she ever left me, she'd surely be missed.
But friends we'll always be to the end
I hold her near and will defend.

Barb, you have been a sweetheart to me, I won't never forget our talks and your advice. I will always hold you close to my heart and your number near. Love ya's always
Robert

adj4u : 03/24/08
what can i say

hey if i tell the truth and explain how great she is then i

i may bring in to much competition
and
if i tell stories to keep the competition away i would be a jerk

so she is a great lady

and am hoping to meet her sooner than later

hugs dear

TiberiusGalloway : 02/14/08
Thank you very much Dragoness, you are too sweet

Sitngrin : 01/30/08
Don't have a numbers scale, lol, but a very talented artist who is also a great person to talk to and friend to have