Nothing can make you high
Or put fire in your eyes
Or give you a chance to fly
When you need the wings
When all that youve got is doubt
And nothing can stop you from feeling down
But oh I know, I know exactly how you feel

But can you believe now
When youre on your knees now
Begging and pleading now
Can you believe
When all that youve got is doubt
And no one to pull you out
When your heart is slowin down
Can you believe

If you can believe in love, u must first believe in real friendships...


I am just the girl who grew up with all brothers and makes friends easier with males than females. If you want an honest female perspective and love movies and music, you might have a new best friend. My life focuses around my kids for now(a son who just left for college and a daughter who has not yet begun kindergarten). I dont get the time for much of a social life but I still enjoy conversation and laughter. I would love to develop great friendships that can last a lifetime.

UPDATE: Friendships dont EQUAL romances although they sometimes develop into one. My 'husband' resides in Britain as he is british and denied visa to enter. We will NEVER be together, but because of the complexity of an INTERNATIONAL divorce and other personal reasons, I am unable to obtain a divorce right now and this is why I state that I am looking for friends,,,for now.

(if your identity lies in your muscles, your shiny car, your house, or your jewelry,,,i probably wont be impressed)

If your highs come from alcohol or drugs,,you wont enjoy my company

If you feel MY worth lies in my physical attributes or sexual drive,,,i am probably not your type.

If you are thirty or under, we probably dont have alot to hang out and discuss, I have a son nearly twenty.

MY DISTASTES are vulgarity, violence, dishonesty, games, reptiles, cats, excessive tattoos and excessive piercings.

MY FAVORITE character traits are love of music, honesty, strength, chivalry, and a healthy dose of humility.


MY STRENGTHS are a HUGE (probably overtrusting) heart, honesty, femininity, openness, and creativity.

MY WEAKNESSES are , tendency to overtrust, passivity, excessive empathy toward others, and POSSIBLY asking too many questions (but how else do you find things out,,right?)


The good guy is honest, down to earth, confident (but respectful and considerate), never scared to be truthful, patient (within reason) about his partners weaknesses as he is willing to face his own,and always finishes first in my book. :) I don't expect perfection. Just be human, be honest, be patient,,,and be yourself.

UPDATE: I do appreciate the posts and people here are lovely. I have two children of my own and dont wish to go through pregnancy again, but I would love to get to know yours(if you have them).